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ProudMNDemocrat

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Thu May 22, 2025, 07:22 PM Thursday

Saw Gov. Tim Walz this morning at my husband's Memorial. [View all]

Last edited Fri May 23, 2025, 08:08 AM - Edit history (1)

My husband of 53 years, Phil Castrovinci, died on May 18th of Congestive Heart Failure, coupled with Type II Diabetes, resulting in organ failure.

But he and Tim Walz go way back to late January or early February 2005 when they attended Camp Wellstone together over in St. Paul. Tim had not yet decided to run for Congress and was getting acquainted as to how to start the process. My husband had been involved in Minnesota Politics at the grass roots level since the 2000 election. We both were.

Since that initial meeting, my husband began helping Tim with things, as well as his decision to retire from the Army National Guard. Tim was still teaching and coaching at Mankato West High School at the time. When he did file with the FEC, he announced his official decision and we drove over to Mankato to witness it. We were on his team from the very start. We began to form a good friendship with him and Gwen.

The rest is history as we worked on every Congressional campaign, went to many events for him in the 1st CD, held fundraisers, even on the 2018 Governor's race. 2022 was when we moved from Southeast Minnesota to Eden Prairie.

On Monday, I reached out to Gwen and she responded right away. She was not sure if she and Tim could make the time to come to my husband's Celebration of Life, but they did. Not as Governor and First Lady of the State, but as dear friends who were mourning the loss of a friend along with me. Both Tim and Gwen gave me big hugs. He let me know that Keith Ellison knew(he and Phil were dear friends), Ken Martin (DNC Chair), and others in the Administration knew also. Phil knew many in St. Paul. Tim and Gwen stayed for a bit before having to leave, as to not draw attention away from the main purpose of the event.

I was consoled and told, "We will be in touch."

Tim Walz would have made an awesome VP. But still at the helm of Minnesota, he will remain a dear and close personal friend for the rest of my life anyway. My son did not know his dad and I knew personally the man who would not only be our Congressman for 12 years, but our Governor for almost 8.

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Deepest sympathy malaise Thursday #1
So sorry snowybirdie Thursday #2
I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork Thursday #3
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Basso8vb Thursday #4
Ohh I'm so Sorry about your Cha Thursday #5
My deepest sympathy for your lost treasure JMCKUSICK Thursday #6
So Sorry for your loss, but many thanks for sharing your words IrishBubbaLiberal Thursday #7
We have lived here 49 years now. ProudMNDemocrat Thursday #9
When I was in college in St Paul...... IrishBubbaLiberal Thursday #11
We also know Walter Mondale as well. ProudMNDemocrat Friday #41
It sounds like he got a proper send-off. DFW Friday #53
Paul Wellstone's tragic death hit many of us hard. He a good man riversedge Friday #54
I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. a kennedy Thursday #8
I'm sorry for your loss senseandsensibility Thursday #10
My wife and I are deeply sorry for your loss. Emile Thursday #12
So sorry for your loss mcar Thursday #13
So sorry to hear Figarosmom Thursday #14
my deepest sympathy for your loss 🫂🕯️ Celerity Thursday #15
Condolences, ProudMNDemocrat gademocrat7 Thursday #16
I'm so very sorry for your loss. May the memory of your husband be a blessing to you... Hekate Thursday #17
I am so very sorry for your loss. Quiet Em Thursday #18
"" AllaN01Bear Thursday #19
Very sorry for your loss. JohnnyLib2 Thursday #20
I am so sorry KT2000 Thursday #21
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved husband. He sounds like a really awesome LoisB Thursday #22
I'm sorry for your loss Jarqui Thursday #23
So sorry for your loss. 70sEraVet Thursday #24
My condolences 🙏 Faux pas Thursday #25
My condolences on your loss. CentralMass Thursday #26
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Thursday #27
❤️ blogslug Thursday #28
I'm sorry for your loss MustLoveBeagles Thursday #29
Phil Castrovinci, and his family, are best kind of example of what Democrats should be. SalamanderSleeps Thursday #30
My heart breaks for you, truly! NCgayguy Thursday #31
... AKwannabe Thursday #32
Please take care of yourself. hamsterjill Thursday #33
So very sorry for your loss. Nanjeanne Thursday #34
I'm so sorry for your great loss. greatauntoftriplets Thursday #35
Condolences Stinky The Clown Thursday #36
So sorry for your loss. Solly Mack Thursday #37
I'm so sorry for your loss cate94 Thursday #38
My deepest condolences to you and your family. HeartsCanHope Thursday #39
Sorry for your loss misanthrope Thursday #40
I am so sorry for your loss UpInArms Friday #42
My sympathies to you and your family. What a great tribute to your husband Wingus Dingus Friday #43
My deepest condolences to you on the loss of your beloved husband. virgdem Friday #44
So sorry for your loss. Peace be with you. I am glad your husband's true friends were there. Fla Dem Friday #45
I'm so sorry for your loss - TBF Friday #46
Condolences and congratulations for loving a man with a life well lived. NNadir Friday #47
My sincerest condolences to you and your family. ificandream Friday #48
I'm so sorry for your loss. Alliepoo Friday #49
My condolences. I wish your family the best in this trying time. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Friday #50
Our deepest sympathies PMD..those who stand by us over the decades can Peacetrain Friday #51
My condolences on the loss of your husband. Ocelot II Friday #52
So sorry for your loss. CaptainTruth Friday #55
Please accept my condolences MontanaMama Friday #56
Just received a BEAUTIFUL Bouquet from the Governor and First Lady of Minnesota. ProudMNDemocrat Friday #57
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's there anything we can do to help? Nevilledog Friday #58
I suggest making a donantion to your Local Food Bankk in Phil's memory. ProudMNDemocrat Friday #59
That's a wonderful idea and honors his memory in such a meaningful way. Nevilledog Friday #61
Stay strong Jean Genie Friday #60
The floral arrangement I received a little while ago said thst. ProudMNDemocrat Friday #62
I'm so very sorry for you loss. femmedem Friday #63
I am so sorry for your loss. Phil. Clouds Passing Friday #64
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