Not sure what to do for my brother.

[Bayard]

5. If he's not agreeable to anything you've already suggested,

Then he's probably not going to want to hear what steps are necessary to qualify for Medicaid. It may already be too late, but he needs to put his house, as well as other major assets, in your name, for one thing.

We the same situation with my parents. They had to sell their house, and then do a, "spend down." But we were finally able to get them into a nice new assisted living facility, with adjoining rooms. My Mom even got to keep her cat.