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[digonswine]

16. I will try to elucidate-

I worked with adolescent sex-offenders for 13 years.
On the surface, it's easy---kid forces sex upon younger/weaker sibling. EVIL--that is where most people disengage.
Next step--look into the child's history--Oh boy---It turns out he was abused at a young age, as well.
It is about power at this stage. They lose the ability to to have power over the self. Despite their experience, they abuse and exert power.

We always would opine that the kids were in treatment and they would return to families that have not changed. We tilted at windmills.

We hated their parents--BUT--the parents were probably abused, by parents that themselves were abused. Obviously, someone started the horrible train-wreck in motion, but WHO?

What if I was raised in similar circumstances? Who knows?

But-again. It ends at PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY. I know of no other way.