I don't know what to do

[ohheckyeah]

3. Does it sound reasonable

for now to respond to her email that yes I forgive her and we can move forward and have a good time at our parents party? Then once this is over, I can write that long letter to her?

We (my 3 other siblings, 2 sisters and a brother) want to get through this without my parents knowing my sister caused all this grief. At some point my mom will know because she and I go out together and she knows me, but I would like for that to be after the party.


PS - she went off on one of my sisters when she suggested that sister #1 might want to consider getting back on the anti-depressives.