hey guys. how is every one? [View all]
considering the slime that has been slithering around these days i am sort of hesitant to post my business here, but…
so, after 32 years and 4+1 kids, many ups and downs, and breakdowns, my marriage is over.
i have really been doing well, which, of course tips co-dependant bs. very happy with meds, and with treatment of some chronic health/pain problems, i am feeling pretty strong. so, i can't do the crazy go round with him any more.
i am quite convinced that he is borderline. he recently admitted to me that he knew there was something wrong with his brain. that there was a switch, where black became white, and he could not stop it.
his brother and i have tried to figure out if he was depressed. it seems that way when he is in the black faze. everyone is evil. out to get him. he engages in incredibly petty sniping in the middle of armageddon.
we went to hawaii in january, and had 10 days of bliss. we got home and he had a rough landing in reality. he went off, and just turned on my in a most viscous and stupid way.
also, he is a vp in a big financial institution. need to say more?
this has gone on and on. i can't do it any more.
i am done.
i am taking care of myself,
i am a free woman.
and the judge will gleefully give me that which he would begrudge me till the day he dies.
of course, he will not leave the house. but it is a big house.
there is plenty of money. i will be fine.
just had to spit it out.
this is a really special place.
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