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EFerrari

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2. What I mean about a plan is practicing responding to her
Sun Apr 15, 2012, 12:08 AM
Apr 2012

as someone who is upset and not as someone I love who is trying to attack me. Because at those times, she is someone who is upset and and not someone who is acting as my mother.

If I practice how to respond to her in that different way, at least I have a chance of not making her more upset and making the situation worse, which may be crucial because she has already become violent once. IOW, it's not that I can expect things to go as per my plan but that I won't be flatfooted and trying to talk to my mom when it's this upset, scared person who is there.

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