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mbperrin

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4. 1, In-person visits are absolutely vital to choosing a school where your student can have success.
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 12:41 AM
Jan 2013

Yes, indeed, speak to some random students on campus - in the student union, in the cafeteria, some casual setting and tell them you're (your student needs to have this conversation) considering coming here, and what is the best thing, and what is the worst thing about the campus.

And I know you will find the following technique I used to be quite eccentric, but let me give you my thinking right up front. I believed then, and I do know, at age 60, that a college experience is a total experience - classroom, social, daily living, all of it. So when my time came, I had the opportunity to visit 3 different schools - Texas Tech, UT-Austin, and Texas A&M. I visited with other students, I looked the libraries over, the dormitory layouts and differences, and then I went to the dining halls and had a meal.

At Texas Tech, it was a large open cafeteria with a huge salad bar in the middle of the room made from a real wagon with huge wooden wheels. In the middle of that bar was a huge, perhaps as much as 3 feet square, Jell-O mold. Right in the middle of that mold, someone had clearly taken two hands and scooped out a huge portion of Jell-O, making a real shambles of the mold. No one else seemed to notice.

In Austin, we ate at the Jester Center, really new at that time, and were served on tin trays stamped with compartments for food. I thought then and now that it looked like I imagined jail would be.

At A&M, we ate in a dining hall with tablecloths on tables, student waiters in white, and were served family-style right at the tables with serving bowls of everything available. I thought that any school who put that much into eating was bound to be detail-oriented in other things, too. I was impressed. I then found out that one reason they used student waiters was to create more employment for students on-campus, because in those days, Bryan and College Station were just pretty small with few opportunities for students to work. They also had students working in the on-campus laundry service, landscaping departments and more.

I chose those darned Aggies.

So the best food gets it! No, the campus which seems to fit your own personality and needs and really seems to care about you and what you are studying is your choice.

Again, I apologize for the length and eccentricity of my post, but it worked for me.

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What is the professor/teacher to student ratio in the largest and smallest classes? no_hypocrisy Jan 2013 #1
Those are good questions rightsideout Jan 2013 #8
How's the food? elleng Jan 2013 #2
Thanks! OmahaBlueDog Jan 2013 #25
Again, have a great time! elleng Jan 2013 #26
Why rack up debt for a degree that will be useless when... NoOneMan Jan 2013 #3
Cheer up! When the end comes, no one will be collecting student debt, mbperrin Jan 2013 #6
Yeah, I thought of that a second after I posted NoOneMan Jan 2013 #9
Where's your wind and solar? Wind is now 26% of all Texas electrical generation, and we've mbperrin Jan 2013 #21
Solar and Wind are at .31% and 4.43% of total online capacity nationwide, respectively NoOneMan Jan 2013 #22
Yes, the nation as a whole is still mired in yesterday's energy. 26% of Texas electrical mbperrin Jan 2013 #27
"Your debt definition is simply nonsense." NoOneMan Jan 2013 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author cali196lib99 Jan 2013 #31
Because Mrs. OBD has threatened greivous harm to any OBkids not going to college OmahaBlueDog Jan 2013 #18
1, In-person visits are absolutely vital to choosing a school where your student can have success. mbperrin Jan 2013 #4
Of course you should never make the mistake quakerboy Jan 2013 #13
You're right, of course. mbperrin Jan 2013 #20
Does she know what she wants to major in? teenagebambam Jan 2013 #5
Unfortunately, no OmahaBlueDog Jan 2013 #16
When I took my daughter on visits Still Sensible Jan 2013 #7
Oh man. quakerboy Jan 2013 #14
MSU Dairy Store is the best anywhere. knitter4democracy Jan 2013 #15
Im normally skeptical of "best anywhere" claims quakerboy Jan 2013 #30
+1! Hangingon Jan 2013 #19
Ask TlalocW Jan 2013 #10
Most of the on-campus information is available on-line. Ask about off-campus concerns. TheBlackAdder Jan 2013 #11
What percentage of the students... peace13 Jan 2013 #12
In addition to the questions listed LWolf Jan 2013 #17
Oh, and.... teenagebambam Jan 2013 #23
Point well taken OmahaBlueDog Jan 2013 #24
You should get on the school websites now Fresh_Start Jan 2013 #28
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