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EarlG

(22,952 posts)
71. Interesting
Tue May 27, 2025, 12:25 PM
Tuesday

I wasn't alive during the Civil Rights era, but my understanding is that at the time a lot of people thought that standing up for the civil rights of Black Americans was political suicide.

I also recall hearing the exact same arguments made by people on this very website twenty years ago, when the GOP was kicking our ass winning elections because -- so the thinking went -- Democrats were too friendly to gay people. The argument was that we should back off crazy radical ideas like "gay marriage" because it was alienating voters. The best way to win was to stuff the gays back into the closet.

It took a lot of fight and pressure and political courage to make marriage equality a reality, and it was the right thing to do. And the result of that difficult fight was, according to you, the "peak ascension of left-leaning cultural issues."

But now it seems you would like to abandon any further efforts to secure civil rights for others, for the exact same reason that other people argued against securing your civil rights.

If we're going to have an honest conversation about reality, start with the reality that most of the time it's not Democrats who are pushing for "wacky shit" and "identity politics." Democrats are not running political campaigns saying that we should provide litter boxes in classrooms for furries. Democrats are not running political campaigns saying we should abolish the police entirely. Democrats are not running campaigns saying we should open up the country's borders to anyone who wants to come here.

But Republicans DO run on those issues. They run campaigns which just flat out lie about Democrats, saying we're going to do all of the above. In 2024 it was Republicans who ran on trans issues, and "DEI," and other social issues -- not Democrats. Democrats ran a campaign based on mainstream stuff like the economy, abortion, foreign policy, etc.

Meanwhile, I don't know if you've noticed, but over in the Republican Party they really are pushing for "wacky shit" and "identity politics" -- for example, they're deporting as many people of color as they possibly can, while rolling out the red carpet for white Afrikaners. That's not just me making up a BS claim for political reasons -- that is the actual policy they're enforcing, from the president on down.

So for me, the problem is not "Democrats need to stop doing all this wacky cultural shit." The problem is "It's way too easy for Republicans to convince voters that Democrats want to do all this wacky cultural shit."

That's a totally different problem, and it can't be solved by throwing marginalized people under the bus, because that is not going to stop Republicans lying about Democrats. Why would it? They'll just come up with some other BS to lie to people about.

The real problem is Citizens United, which allowed unrestricted dark money spending on US elections, and a social media ecosystem which has essentially become nothing more than a massive commercial propaganda machine which shovels incendiary garbage in front of people's faces 24/7 based on algorithms owned by billionaires.

How do we overcome that? Hell if I know -- it's not like Citizens United or social media are going anywhere anytime soon. Best I can come up with so far is that in 2028 we're going to need someone who is an extremely strong communicator with that magic teflon touch, who can play the social media game. I also think that a message of "freedom" vs. "big government ordering you around" could be effective for Democrats in 2026 and 2028.

But I'm not really down with the strategy of, "Let's win by treading on the people that Republicans want us to tread on," because if we have to turn into Republicans to win, we haven't won at all. We've just been assimilated.

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lmaooooo what on earth WhiskeyGrinder May 26 #1
How about, hildegaard28 May 26 #2
+ 100!! CrispyQ May 26 #5
The big brains hildegaard28 May 26 #10
IMHO atreides1 Wednesday #103
Ill throw one out: legalize a distinction between wages and income, Volaris Tuesday #44
I don't think it's the economy. They have been trained to hate liberals and Democrats, travelingthrulife Tuesday #59
Exactly Rebl2 Wednesday #99
There's nothing wrong with Dems trying to plan a strategy senseandsensibility May 26 #3
Ahhhhh--More "Bad Things About Democrats". Kingofalldems May 26 #4
Oh those Democrats! Doing what people say they should, learn to speak to the working class. But ... but ... THE HOTEL. betsuni May 26 #29
Bad? Sound like they're researching what went wrong. WarGamer May 26 #36
Lost the WH, House, Senate, Judiciary GreatGazoo Tuesday #68
Why is that a bad thing? Mountainguy May 26 #6
I am done with male victimhood Ritabert May 26 #7
I think the male bashing when male concerns are considered Alpeduez21 May 26 #21
I'm laughing....my wife said, "Why don't they just go to school walkingman May 26 #8
Or they could take a page from republican men kacekwl Tuesday #54
it's my party........everybody sing along now. nt msongs May 26 #9
... Celerity May 26 #14
Judy;s gonna get what's coming to her.... nt msongs May 26 #16
DNC giving me a good reason to ignore donation appeals. nt delisen May 26 #11
I don't understand why people have a problem with this, republicans got in power because of stuff like this unblock May 26 #12
I think a lack of authenticity might be the problem LearnedHand May 26 #34
I think Democrats focus test too much AZProgressive May 26 #38
cringe level 7 Celerity May 26 #13
Not taking the bait on every single culture war issue the GOP conjures up costs nothing. BannonsLiver May 26 #15
"donors and strategists holing up in luxury hotel rooms" Retrograde May 26 #17
It's the "cost" that bothers me most. lees1975 May 26 #18
The only issue I see here is the "luxury hotel room" thing jmowreader May 26 #19
Why are you framing this so negatively? Prairie Gates May 26 #20
I posted the title and 4 paragraphs verbatim TheProle May 26 #24
How do you make a stupid idea look better? leftstreet May 26 #28
According to YouGov it was 19 million womanofthehills May 26 #32
Maybe what YouGov meant was that 19 million eligible voters didn't turn out? CrispyQ Tuesday #58
believe me, repuke elites have these same sorts of events cadoman May 26 #26
Young men feel like they have lost their power Tree Lady May 26 #22
That's a lot of kids right now womanofthehills May 26 #33
I think part of it is giving too much to the kids Tree Lady May 26 #37
I don't know how young people afford to buy a house today, CrispyQ Tuesday #63
My daughter 46 making over 200k Tree Lady Tuesday #74
Social media has convinced too many that they can make tons of money online or in some get rich scheme tulipsandroses Tuesday #78
Exactly this is the issue with my grandson Tree Lady Tuesday #84
all they need to do is use simpler language, more baby talk, a lot of googoo, gaagaa and maybe they can get through to ImNotGod May 26 #23
Unfortunately, what it takes to "please" the portion of men Bettie May 26 #25
Let me guess - they are using the very same strategists who put the party in this position to try to get us out of it. Midwestern Democrat May 26 #27
Bingo n/t Sympthsical May 26 #40
Kind of like "our big brain is gonna get us out of this mess that our big brain got us in." CrispyQ Tuesday #65
Does that mean I have to grunt and scratch my crotch? Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin May 26 #30
Well, one just needs read most of the responses in this thread and it is understood that men are not welcome here Alpeduez21 May 26 #31
What would you, personally, like to hear from the party? WhiskeyGrinder Tuesday #55
Some of what I'd like to hear we cant discuss here. Callie1979 Wednesday #101
You are correct RJ-MacReady Tuesday #73
Many think the podcasts won the election. womanofthehills May 26 #35
That makes sense to me, especially in light of the recent study that men, especially young men, don't read much anymore. CrispyQ Tuesday #66
What a waste of money JI7 May 26 #39
Is this a job creation program? jalan48 May 26 #41
So I guess this means that minorities will be thrown under the bus? DSandra May 26 #42
Why does it have to be either or? RJ-MacReady Tuesday #76
Maybe instead of blowing millions of dollars MorbidButterflyTat Tuesday #43
DU may ridicule, but I agree with the findings. Wanderlust988 Tuesday #45
I'm pretty sure few Democrats use those terms. Anybody know? I remember AOC defending "Latinx": betsuni Tuesday #46
Elizabeth Warren Shrek Tuesday #53
This doesn't help RJ-MacReady Wednesday #100
According to Pew pattyloutwo Tuesday #57
The biggest mistake Democrats have made is failing to tell people when they've done something good. Vinca Tuesday #47
That says more about young people that it does the party. walkingman Tuesday #51
I suspect that SS and Medicare rank really low on the list of what your average 25 yr old is concerned about MichMan Wednesday #105
I just gave that as an example because they're among the biggest and most successful programs. What would a 25 Vinca Wednesday #110
Why we'll keep right on losing. Passages Tuesday #48
In my view we need a strategy that will answer 2 questions. Prairie_Seagull Tuesday #49
Two parties and both have lost their way. nt Autumn Tuesday #50
I have a better idea gab13by13 Tuesday #52
Actually all they needed to do was undo Reagan's actions. Blue Full Moon Tuesday #56
Women make up nearly half of the working class. Quiet Em Tuesday #60
We need new leaders that don't come across as wimps. It doesn't matter how stupid you doc03 Tuesday #61
Obama was pretty good at reaching young men: a dynamic messenger promoting "hope and change" andym Tuesday #62
Bernie just showed how to do it. Save your millions. thought crime Tuesday #64
We're losing the culture war Sympthsical Tuesday #67
Interesting EarlG Tuesday #71
I feared this would be more or less the shape of the response Sympthsical Tuesday #72
No need for a straw man EarlG Tuesday #75
Keeping it very simple - a question Sympthsical Tuesday #79
So much crap you've said... Brenda Tuesday #87
Have you seen some of our national rhetoric towards Latinos? Sympthsical Tuesday #90
This message was self-deleted by its author Brenda Tuesday #91
This message was self-deleted by its author Brenda Tuesday #89
You asked me a direct question EarlG Tuesday #93
I actually agree with much you say here Sympthsical Wednesday #102
Hostility towards males here? Brenda Wednesday #108
No, I got it Sympthsical Wednesday #109
Sorry for the late reply EarlG Friday #112
Sorry, this got lost in the shuffle and just saw it Sympthsical 9 hrs ago #113
I completely agree with this and your later post as well. Abolishinist Tuesday #77
This is the part i ageee with: "ever-changing list of cultural offenses people must be persecuted for committing" LearnedHand Tuesday #81
Well said. Littlered Tuesday #82
The odd thing is, I don't think this moralizing tone fujiyamasan Tuesday #86
Thanks for these posts. BluesRunTheGame Tuesday #95
Agreed. I came of age politically in the 1980s and being a liberal minded young man inclined towards intellectualism Midwestern Democrat Wednesday #97
NAFTA was, in my opinion, a HUGE political blunder. BluesRunTheGame Wednesday #98
It made me glad. LAS14 Tuesday #69
I'm so tired of Democrats blaming voters for our electoral failures biocube Tuesday #70
Hard to do when the infinite dark money ads define you. BlueTsunami2018 Tuesday #80
Are they taking Faux pas Tuesday #83
They Couldn't Have Rented... ProfessorGAC Tuesday #85
We need to reach young men too. Initech Tuesday #88
That's the biggest pile of horseshit I have seen in some time... kentuck Tuesday #92
Working class young men are pretty much like foreign people. kerry-is-my-prez Tuesday #94
Once again these "consultants" fujiyamasan Wednesday #96
The Dems must learn to jerk off a mic. Clouds Passing Wednesday #104
Here's the answer: lots of Democratic men are racist and sexist. That's why they Scrivener7 Wednesday #106
Save money, just listen to Trump's rally speeches Deminpenn Wednesday #107
The solution: "holing up in luxury hotel rooms" is the problem. usonian Wednesday #111
Doing yard maintenance Tree Lady 9 hrs ago #114
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