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Sympthsical

(10,729 posts)
7. Take a break from media
Mon May 19, 2025, 01:51 AM
May 19

There's nothing going on that doesn't keep for several days to several weeks.

If I had read no news this week, not a single political item, my life would be more or less the same.

I take entire weeks off. It's very nice. Read books, catch up on shows, play new games, listen to music, do projects around the house. I have never returned from one of these news vacations and thought, "My god, I have just been walking around all month not knowing what Donald Trump tweeted?!"

We know what the country is right now. We know the contours. We also know who we're voting for more or less.

I find people who immerse themselves all day every day in politics, media, and the parasocial components of both tend to fray at the edges until they start falling apart. It's just not good for mental health to be glued nonstop. People start sounding like lunatics. "Being informed" isn't really badge-worthy if the information is fleeting and ultimately meaningless three days later. That's not being informed. That's just being occupied.

Pretend it's the 80's or 90s. Watch a few things at 5:30pm and call it a day.

It's unnatural for the human psyche to know and/or worry about everything going on in the entire world. It's too much. We're not emotionally built for it. Our psychology cracks under the weight.

Breaks are healthy.

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7 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

I hate everything. [View all] nolabear May 19 OP
You are not alone. LoisB May 19 #1
Call out the coup. Speak out. usonian May 19 #2
I do what I can. I'm satisfied with that. nolabear May 19 #5
Try to limit media exposure. I am text-only for news. usonian May 19 #11
Try Yale's free Science of Well Being course, Bear SheltieLover May 19 #3
You're saying what I say to myself. nolabear May 19 #8
I know, Bear SheltieLover May 19 #18
Wow. Thanks for the tips! I just enrolled in the Yale course and sent it 5 friends! Nanuke May 23 #51
Yw! SheltieLover May 23 #55
Oh I hear you, my dear nolabear, boy do I ever! CaliforniaPeggy May 19 #4
Music helps me. 2MuchNoise May 19 #9
Love your ideas Peggy SheltieLover May 19 #19
Everywhere I look, I see people going about their days like everything is "normal". 2MuchNoise May 19 #6
to be fair Skittles May 19 #12
We may have to fake it til we make it. nolabear May 19 #13
Maybe try putting on some feel good music SheltieLover May 19 #20
Take a break from media Sympthsical May 19 #7
Yep. That's what I need. Now why is it so hard to do? nolabear May 19 #10
Stress, outrage, anger, etc. can be addicting Sympthsical May 19 #15
I hate people BidenRocks May 19 #14
Not me. I think that's a Republican value. RainCaster May 19 #16
I agree. It's not that kind of hate and I know it's not like me. nolabear May 19 #41
There was a story told by Ram Dass that helped me. taxi May 19 #17
Great story! SheltieLover May 19 #21
THAT is exactly right! Usually I know and follow that. nolabear May 19 #42
I expected that the merchant would have felt disappointed - now having to haul his valuables around again. erronis May 23 #53
Perfect. taxi May 23 #54
I've been thinking of changing my name to Mikey. DJ Synikus Makisimus May 19 #22
As has already been stated, you are not alone. Buddyzbuddy May 19 #23
I definitely have less trust in people these days n/t BaronChocula May 19 #24
If I could get back all the hours I've wasted on Donald Trump MadameButterfly May 19 #25
Sending you a hug, nolabear! HeartsCanHope May 19 #26
Well put. multigraincracker May 19 #28
I have friends everywhere. Eko May 19 #27
Cannabis. Brainfodder May 19 #29
Drugs BoycottingAllThings May 19 #30
Welcome to DU! I hope you are reincarnated as a house pet... LuckyCharms May 19 #32
Much like a neutered dog BoycottingAllThings May 19 #33
Oh but you are wrong! LuckyCharms May 19 #34
The levels of wrongness even! Brainfodder May 19 #35
Nolabear... LuckyCharms May 19 #31
Yes. It's out there. I forgot one of my favorite lyrics. nolabear May 19 #43
. LuckyCharms May 19 #48
My two sanity aids are nature and limiting news some days to Heather Cox Richardson lostnfound May 19 #36
I turn to art history. It gives me perspective and, oddly, hope... CTyankee May 19 #37
I loved the art history classes in college. Ping Tung May 23 #52
There are a lot of good suggestions on this thread, but hamsterjill May 19 #38
My wife agrees with me on just about every issue yet Prairie_Seagull May 19 #39
I posted about this a few days ago k_buddy762 May 19 #40
K&R UTUSN May 19 #44
K&R - Dupe, oh well counts as double the K&R UTUSN May 19 #45
I've started doing therapeutic journaling to deal with some mental and emotional issues that I'm having robbob May 19 #46
I try to spend as much time as I can in my studio painting bif May 19 #47
Im sad, depressed, angry, embarrassed, apathetic, bitter, and energized, all at the same time. Oneironaut May 19 #49
Kicking for re-viewing. Been feeling this since 2016 & this is the best description. UTUSN May 23 #50
every once in a while lapfog_1 May 23 #56
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