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ShazzieB

(22,533 posts)
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 02:38 PM 7 hrs ago

The latest on Willow (not happy news, sorry)

Last edited Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:05 PM - Edit history (1)

Since I last posted about Willow back in January, her condition has continued to decline. Some days are better than others, but none of them are great at this point. Mr. B and I have reluctantly decided to stop putting off the inevitable. We've scheduled a vet appointment for noon on Thursday.

I know it's going to be hard, and the reality hasn't fully hit me yet, but we're at peace with this decision. As much as we hate the thought of losing her, I feel like we've been gradually losing her little by little for months now. In a weird sort of way, it's a relief to know it'll be over soon, for her and for us.

Thank you all for your support. It is deeply appreciated!

P.S.Sorry about the duplicate post! I will leave it up since it got a couple of replies before I saw it.

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The latest on Willow (not happy news, sorry) (Original Post) ShazzieB 7 hrs ago OP
Healing vibes on the way to Willow, you, & hubby SheltieLover 6 hrs ago #1
Hugs for Willow and you and Mr. B MustLoveBeagles 6 hrs ago #2
It is a very sad and difficult decision Lifeafter70 6 hrs ago #3
... 2naSalit 6 hrs ago #4
This is very sad. I am sorry. LoisB 6 hrs ago #5
I'm sorry ShazzieB... All we can do is support them the best we can to assure quality of life... hlthe2b 6 hrs ago #6
We've been there too many times... GiqueCee 6 hrs ago #7
Pyrenees rescue kcoates 1 hr ago #23
You are in my thoughts Grim Chieftain 5 hrs ago #8
I will be thinking of all of you on Thursday. I sm so sorry irisblue 5 hrs ago #9
I'm so sorry, ShazzieB. It is a terrible decision to make, brer cat 5 hrs ago #10
Please read... oldsoldierfadingfast 5 hrs ago #11
You are doing the right thing. multigraincracker 5 hrs ago #12
I'm so sorry Danmel 5 hrs ago #13
I'm so sorry Danmel 5 hrs ago #14
😢💐 blm 5 hrs ago #15
My vet, who is one of the kindest people I've ever met, said that letting our babies go is the hardest, HeartsCanHope 5 hrs ago #16
We feel for you Old Crank 5 hrs ago #17
My deepest condolences. AltairIV 4 hrs ago #18
... orangecrush 4 hrs ago #19
I'm sorry cate94 4 hrs ago #20
I'm so sorry. I lost my Willow several years ago and I still miss her. I lived with her longer than any human. chowder66 4 hrs ago #21
I'm so sorry. Oneironaut 4 hrs ago #22

Lifeafter70

(949 posts)
3. It is a very sad and difficult decision
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 03:13 PM
6 hrs ago

Hubby and I prolonged our snootchie's life for months with water therapy and laser therapy. We finally had to decide whether we were prolonging her pain because it was too difficult to let go. That was almost ten years ago and I still miss her.

My heart goes out to you in this very painful time.
Hubby made this vid of Snootchie Bootchies and Randall when Randall was a just a puppy in 2006. We lost Randall last year. He is now jumping in piles of leaves with his sis.

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hlthe2b

(113,739 posts)
6. I'm sorry ShazzieB... All we can do is support them the best we can to assure quality of life...
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 03:33 PM
6 hrs ago

When that is no longer possible then removing suffering is the final gift of love we can give them.

That won't alleviate the sadness, but please be at peace.

GiqueCee

(4,053 posts)
7. We've been there too many times...
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 03:37 PM
6 hrs ago

... but we just have love them while we've got them.
We now have a 2-year-old Great Pyrenees/Redbone-mix rescue from Texas named Honey. She's our big orange, floppy-eared house horse.
Our hearts are with you, ShazzieB.

kcoates

(73 posts)
23. Pyrenees rescue
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 07:49 PM
1 hr ago

I do Pyrenees rescue in Texas, Saving Pyrenees in Need (SPIN). Is he one of ours?

Grim Chieftain

(1,655 posts)
8. You are in my thoughts
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 03:57 PM
5 hrs ago

Now and on Thursday. Sometimes doing the right thing is the hardest. Take care.

brer cat

(27,541 posts)
10. I'm so sorry, ShazzieB. It is a terrible decision to make,
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:24 PM
5 hrs ago

but remember that it is kindness to relieve her suffering. I will keep you in my heart.

11. Please read...
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:25 PM
5 hrs ago

LetMyPeopleVote's post re: chocolate before you take Willow to the vet.
Why does doing the "right thing" hurt so bad? I don't know, but I do know so many DUers will want to take you and Mr. B in their arms and they will cry with and for you both on Thurs.

multigraincracker

(37,508 posts)
12. You are doing the right thing.
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:29 PM
5 hrs ago

When I get so bad someone has to wipe my butt, wish someone could take me to the vet.
My ex was euthanasia tech and was there for many dogs and cats getting that finale shot. Very peaceful for an animal in pain. First shot relaxed them. Then the second one, there a peaceful sigh as they fall asleep.

HeartsCanHope

(1,652 posts)
16. My vet, who is one of the kindest people I've ever met, said that letting our babies go is the hardest,
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:34 PM
5 hrs ago

but most loving thing we can do for our animal companions at the end of their life. I'm sorry you all have to go through this,

and I will be thinking of you all on Thursday. Please give Willow some loves from me.

Old Crank

(6,956 posts)
17. We feel for you
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:39 PM
5 hrs ago

We just had to deal with our little dog yesterday, we had for 14 years. Not a happy day for all involved.
Take care of yourselves.

AltairIV

(1,033 posts)
18. My deepest condolences.
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 05:04 PM
4 hrs ago

This is an extremely difficult decision and is never easy. May your remaining time together be filled with the simple joy of sharing each others company.

chowder66

(12,192 posts)
21. I'm so sorry. I lost my Willow several years ago and I still miss her. I lived with her longer than any human.
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 05:34 PM
4 hrs ago

Oneironaut

(6,286 posts)
22. I'm so sorry.
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 05:34 PM
4 hrs ago

It's the worst thing about them - our time with them is always too short and always ends. However, it's always worth it - at least she had good times with you.

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