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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsI need a break
Its not you, its me. I love all of you even when we disagree but the news around at home and abroad is taking a toll on my mental health. Im going to a break from all news, find something stupid to do and re-center myself.
redwitch
(15,196 posts)Im feeling it too.
Passages
(3,807 posts)Take good care of yourself, be well, then return.
EarlG
(23,217 posts)The onslaught of bad news can be tough to deal with, and I always recommend that people take breaks if theyre feeling burned out.
I hope you are able to find your way back before too long your informative posts on elections around the country are always very welcome.
calikid
(698 posts)Nittersing
(7,790 posts)Here's to health and healing.
Swede
(37,716 posts)So enjoy your break. Lots of sports on tv, good books to read, etc etc. But do come back.
Bernardo de La Paz
(59,799 posts)leftstreet
(37,729 posts)cachukis
(3,494 posts)Habits need replacement. Build or plant something. Bake bread or take to the loom.
Rest.
blogslug
(39,039 posts)❤️ 🫂 ❤️
nuxvomica
(13,714 posts)Even when the times might demand it. Some escape and recharging is necessary. Good for you!
quaint
(4,276 posts)We need you!
lark
(25,590 posts)MLAA
(19,571 posts)do.
Clouds Passing
(6,272 posts)niyad
(128,059 posts)breaks for self-care are absolutely essential. Be kind and gentle with yourself, and we will be here when you are ready to return to the fray.
PatSeg
(51,260 posts)Take care of yourself. Everyone needs a break now and then.
mdbl
(7,622 posts)Do what you need to protect your health.
surfered
(9,942 posts)Polly Hennessey
(8,283 posts)democrank
(11,872 posts)Thanks for all you do.
littlemissmartypants
(30,431 posts)irisblue
(36,347 posts)Tree Lady
(12,821 posts)Day he won in November until end of Jan. And take mini breaks now.
It feels very overwhelming but at least with the no kings days we are not alone.
livetohike
(23,761 posts)ZDU
(826 posts)Enjoy and treasure your time away. Do what's best for you!
EarthFirst
(3,878 posts)I encourage everyone to find that joy and not allow the despair to consume them.
Find your joy RandySF!
bucolic_frolic
(52,927 posts)I too am trying to scale back. Lost my edge. You take care and kick back as needed.
TheRickles
(3,011 posts)Onward!
BidenRocks
(2,419 posts)'Next Stop, Willoughby!
sop
(16,598 posts)PatrickforB
(15,279 posts)NBC, CBS, ABC, CNN, or Fox. Not that Fox was ever news.
It seems entire swaths of people around the world have been so ruined by corporate corruption, divisive wedges driven by Wall Street financiers and the raw lust for wealth and power of the few billionaires that they can no longer tell the difference between truth and lies.
Always cui bono.
rurallib
(64,296 posts)so I really understand what you mean.
I haven't taken a break yet because it just engulfs us all.
Hope you can truly get away.
Thanks so much for the posts on women's basketball.
You may want to watch some college women's volleyball - it is exciting also.
betsuni
(28,485 posts)kimbutgar
(26,311 posts)I was getting scared about the ICE coming to SF and was relieved they werent invading our city. But Im starting to feel the same way about taking a break!
Grim Chieftain
(766 posts)The news is almost too much to deal with. My husband and I have always been news junkies. but it's all we can do to make it through the evening news.
I have started to check out Garrison Keillor's videos and podcasts on YouTube. It really helps to listen to his sweet, folksy tales of Lake Woebegone.
Please take care. DU will be here when you're ready to come back.
electric_blue68
(24,510 posts)some time in April I realized I was getting too physically stressed out, and I started taking breaks.
It definitely helped.
Good luck!
fierywoman
(8,450 posts)1WorldHope
(1,730 posts)Solly Mack
(95,893 posts)Fla Dem
(27,226 posts)I actually follow very little news. I have a couple of sources, but even then, not every day. DU is my point of contact. If something posted piques my interest, I may follow up by watching MSNBC. But otherwise not much else.
brer cat
(27,178 posts)here when you return.
TBF
(35,212 posts)getting out into nature helps a lot.
Rebl2
(17,121 posts)visiting DU less and watching less national news. I do watch my local news regularly.
3catwoman3
(27,995 posts)
Fucking Fatigue Syndrome. TFFS.
Its been 3783 days since he rode down that damned elevator in 2015, and hes been in the news for one thing or another, never for anything good, every damned day since.
CrispyQ
(40,355 posts)It's overwhelming & it's every fucking day. Never a day off from the drama & chaos. It's draining & exhausting. I just want him dead.
I'm not here nearly as much as I used to be. I have a list of movies I've never seen, some from Mark's movie reviews so I've been watching them, & my house is cleaner.
Maybe this page will inspire you to find something stupid to do.
https://democraticunderground.com/?com=forums
Hang tough!
c-rational
(3,102 posts)70sEraVet
(5,028 posts)This is a good time of year to spend more time outside.
Even better with grandchildren!
Be The Light
(123 posts)We probobly all need to break and regroup.
Never give up.
angrychair
(11,322 posts)It all to well. Best wishes and rest well
Zackzzzz
(179 posts)Here there are so many insights, and many, very deep.
I have laughed and felt my brothers and sisters' pain.
But lately, I limit my input from out there.
I have turned to PT, Walking, Music, and Records.
I have to get up out of my comfy place to change records.
I have found I love the Bossa Nova beat.
It makes me want to dance around the house.
It gives me Joy.
See you.......
Scrivener7
(57,522 posts)Stephen J. Reid who does camping adventures in the British Isles and they all go wrong in very funny ways and he has a great sense of humor about himself. And the videos are beautiful, and you learn a little.
I am absolutely not inclined toward camping in any way, but I recommend it as an escape.
You do what you need to do. We still love you.
eppur_se_muova
(40,389 posts)Thanks for all your hard work keeping us informed, and enjoy whatever it is you do to unwind !
Quiet Em
(2,371 posts)I take breaks from the news all the time in this era of the con artist and all his awfulness.
FemDemERA
(628 posts)Everyone needs a little downtime now and again. Hope you are feeling up to joining in again soon! I appreciate your posts.
sheshe2
(94,507 posts)Take care of you for a bit and know that you will be missed.
tulipsandroses
(8,030 posts)Renew an old hobby, find a new one. Explore your city. Find free local events. Volunteer - nothing that would be too heavy right now. Children's Hospital here is always looking for volunteers- one of my favorite volunteer activities. Not all mommies and daddies can be there all day with sick kids. The nurses appreciate the volunteers that help. Good luck trying to give medicine to a scared anxious child. The volunteers play a huge role by reading stories, pushing the kids around in those little wagons.
Take care!
Hekate
(99,957 posts)nolabear
(43,835 posts)I just cant do it. I keep up with the news but its going to destroy my mental health if I dont stay on the surface.
Cha
(315,242 posts)We'll miss you, of course, but our health is our Important issue!
Thanks for telling us..
💙
🌺
S/V Loner
(9,447 posts)mahina
(20,109 posts)information, and accuracy, and the kindness in your sharing. Breathing with you!
LoisB
(11,889 posts)Permanut
(7,663 posts)I've done the same. Thanks for the heads up.
cally
(21,804 posts)It helps to restore mental health and balance. Take care of yourself
biophile
(959 posts)Evolve Dammit
(21,297 posts)2naSalit
(98,346 posts)To care for yourself!
BigmanPigman
(54,178 posts)I wish I as an ignorant moron since ignorance is bliss.
I am very far from "bliss".
tRump is wearing us down on purpose....it's part of his agenda.
If we are worn and tired we won't resist him with passion.
It certainly is effecting me mentally, physically and emotionally.
I'm going to put a binding spell on him tonight (Pagan stuff). I did that every month for 4 years (only missing 3). I can't wait for the next waning crescent moon, this is a emergency spell!
https://medium.com/defiant/use-this-spell-to-bind-trump-and-his-cronies-a5b6298f5c69
MustLoveBeagles
(13,690 posts)calimary
(88,231 posts)And we love you, too!
Aussie105
(7,321 posts)I'm feeling it too, half way around the globe.
Gone off the Colbert show.
It was funny to start with, poking fun at Trump and his Deplorables, but the situation is no laughing matter anymore.
On DU less, too stressful at the best of times.
Nixie
(17,882 posts)see you soon. You are very much appreciated ! 🥰
catrose
(5,313 posts)We will be waiting for you
Silver Gaia
(5,162 posts)I do this from time to time myself. Rest and regroup. Take care of yourself.
DFW
(59,204 posts)If theres a hell, you might want to go there for some R&R.
My solution is to live and work in Europe, although I fell into it. I didnt really consciously choose it. More like it chose me. The weather is unpleasant, the bureaucracy is infuriating, uncaring, inefficient and unfair. Oh, and nothing is free here. The ones who claim otherwise are lying. Things are financed differently from the way they are in the states. Consumers of some certain services are not necessarily the same ones who get the bill, but it is all paid for.
Oh, and I still work for a living. At 73, its not quite as much fun getting up at 4:00 AM to get the 6:whatever flight down to Zürich, but my Swiss employee got a bad case of Covid, and someone had to step in for him. Hes still a mess, and I have to run down there again this weekend. My wifes mom is a mess (shes 98, and lives far away), and I dont even remember when the last time was that we had a weekend together.
We all watch the news and see the US government doing its level best to destroy the place. But 85 years ago, things werent so wonderful here, either. Many take the long view.
Most people who work here get six weeks paid vacation. As director for Europe for a very liberal Texas company, I take what I want. As long as the work gets done, the head office is happy, and they are the same guys I was working for when I signed up, and that was fifty years ago this year. We were less than 20 people then. We are over a thousand now. Like I said: liberal. Adapt. Treat your people well. Theyll work hard and adapt, too.
What I mean by all this is just reminding you that the point comes for EVERYBODY where they have to step back from things. So just do it. Feel good about it. You know as well as anyone that the whole stinking mess will be here when you return, whether thats tomorrow or in half a year.
FakeNoose
(39,130 posts)It's good to take a break now and then. My usual solution is to get lost in a good book. But you do you!