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sheshe2

(92,211 posts)
Thu May 29, 2025, 05:46 PM Thursday

Well, dayum.

My sister just tested positive for Covid.

I live in her attached apartment. I moved there to take care of mom. We did that for five years. It was 24/7 home care and much of that time was during trump’s pandemic. Neither of us came down with Covid, we were so very careful. We had to be.

I have been exposed, we had dinner together on Tuesday for her birthday and I was in and out of her house Wednesday. I will test tomorrow.

Like all of you I am so damn depressed right now with a psychotic nuclear orange man along with his team of fools in charge. I just don’t need this on top of his threat to our existence. He is destroying everything that was good in this country. Everything.




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Well, dayum. (Original Post) sheshe2 Thursday OP
Take care and get well soon malaise Thursday #1
Try not to stress too much as it impacts your immune system functioning. Irish_Dem Thursday #2
It is my sister that has Covid, though I have been exposed. sheshe2 Thursday #9
Yes I know, that is my point. Irish_Dem Thursday #10
This. Saying this 'cuz we love you. fierywoman Thursday #18
Thank you. sheshe2 Thursday #20
If you are worried, what cured my Covid MadameButterfly Friday #47
Sorry to hear about your sister, sheshe peggysue2 Thursday #3
How is your sister feeling? StarryNite Thursday #4
Temp 101/102. sheshe2 Thursday #6
Are doctors still recommending Paxlovid? Hassin Bin Sober Thursday #17
She didn't call her doctor. sheshe2 Thursday #22
There's a new variant starting to hit. Cases just doubled in Taiwan and it's highly contagious. WhiskeyGrinder Thursday #5
That is what I have heard, lucky us.😪 sheshe2 Thursday #8
The new variant is highly contagious however the symptoms are not as bad ... bsiebs Thursday #33
Sorry to hear that. Wish her a speedy recovery, and hope you don't get it. raccoon Thursday #7
his regime is sadistic vapor2 Thursday #11
Ohh, she... I hope your sister has a mild Cha Thursday #12
Thank you, Cha🥰 sheshe2 Thursday #26
Best of Good Luck on the Cha Thursday #36
Wishing you and your Sister well. Lay low and BurnDoubt Thursday #13
I'm sorry Sheshe2 JMCKUSICK Thursday #14
Um... if I may... calimary Thursday #15
O.M.G. sheshe2 Thursday #30
Sending you and Sis healing vibes! 🩷🩷🩷 MLAA Thursday #16
Take care, and may Sis get well soon and completely Hekate Thursday #19
Stay well, sheshe2 Wicked Blue Thursday #21
Take care, sheshe2... slightlv Thursday #23
You had it a lot harder, slightly. sheshe2 Thursday #37
How'd your testing go, sheshe2? slightlv Friday #57
I am so sorry for your loss, slightly. sheshe2 Friday #59
Take care of yourself. Let's hope the vaccine protects you. Gore1FL Thursday #24
Here's hoping that your sister recovers quickly Niagara Thursday #25
Prayers and healing vibes, sheshe2, for your sister to recover quickly and for you not to catch it at highplainsdem Thursday #27
My sister and her daughter spent a few days in Boston. sheshe2 Thursday #41
I finally caught it last Fall after traveling... (had to go thru Heathrow)... 😷 IcyPeas Thursday #28
sheshe JustAnotherGen Thursday #29
That's too stressful wendyb-NC Thursday #31
If you have homegirl Thursday #32
Sending healing thoughts to your sis BumRushDaShow Thursday #34
I hope your sister gets better quickly. ❤️ blogslug Thursday #35
It's completely understandable why you're worried. Emile Thursday #38
Hug ananda Thursday #39
Hopefully your sister's previous vax and boosters will keep it mild. Quiet Em Thursday #40
Just seeing this, Sheshe. B.See Thursday #42
Aw, rats! JohnnyLib2 Thursday #43
Oh she! This on top of everything else radical noodle Thursday #44
My fingers are crossed for you. greatauntoftriplets Thursday #45
Thanks, gaot. sheshe2 Friday #50
I hope that continues, she she. greatauntoftriplets Friday #52
I hope your sister recovers quickly with no lasting brer cat Friday #46
Thanks, brer. sheshe2 Friday #51
Paxlovid is a game changer, sheshe2! BComplex Friday #48
So sorry to hear this, She! BlueMTexpat Friday #49
Well wishes to your sister, sheshe, Bayard Friday #53
Sending you and your sister healing hugs. gademocrat7 Friday #54
I force myself to step away LittleGirl Friday #55
Sending your sister healing vibes and hoping you stay well. HeartsCanHope Friday #56
after dan quale + before w + dumber got elected i read a comforting book by a former SPY writer. pansypoo53219 Friday #58

Irish_Dem

(70,289 posts)
2. Try not to stress too much as it impacts your immune system functioning.
Thu May 29, 2025, 05:52 PM
Thursday

Try to relax, get sleep, stay hydrated and have good nutrition.
This will help your body fight the virus.

Sending you good vibes.

Irish_Dem

(70,289 posts)
10. Yes I know, that is my point.
Thu May 29, 2025, 06:14 PM
Thursday

Last edited Thu May 29, 2025, 07:11 PM - Edit history (1)

You have been exposed to a potentially serious virus.
Your body may be trying to fight it off right now.

Some people get the virus and have no symptoms or very mild ones.

Do what you can to help your body fight it off if need be.

MadameButterfly

(3,013 posts)
47. If you are worried, what cured my Covid
Fri May 30, 2025, 05:51 AM
Friday

Last edited Sat May 31, 2025, 09:29 AM - Edit history (1)

before there were vaccines was the Healing Broth from the Medical Medium
My symptoms were getting worse, I had 2 bowls of the soup and symptoms disappeared except for a trailing cough. I ate the soup for two weeks until the cough went away. This happened both times I had Covid, though by the second time I'd been vaccinated.

I'm not trying to promote the Medical Medium (no affiliation) but I do share this recipe with friends who have Covid. Ever since I didn't one time, and she died. You can Google the recipe. The Medical Medium is too far out for most people, but its a vegetable soup with some roots in in. It can't hurt.

It claims to be an antiviral soup. I've had success eliminating colds too.

peggysue2

(11,895 posts)
3. Sorry to hear about your sister, sheshe
Thu May 29, 2025, 05:57 PM
Thursday

Take care of yourself. Despite the exposure, here's hoping you're negative.

StarryNite

(11,568 posts)
4. How is your sister feeling?
Thu May 29, 2025, 05:57 PM
Thursday

What are her symptoms? I’m wondering just what it means to have COVID now. I had it in 2022 and was quite miserable for about 10 days. It took weeks to feel really normal again.

sheshe2

(92,211 posts)
6. Temp 101/102.
Thu May 29, 2025, 06:05 PM
Thursday

Cough, aches and tired. She is a retired nurse and knows to hydrate and ibuprofen to get the fever down.

Hassin Bin Sober

(27,087 posts)
17. Are doctors still recommending Paxlovid?
Thu May 29, 2025, 07:07 PM
Thursday

My partner and I got on it right away last year because our friend (vaxxed) had just gone through it and was miserable for a month.

We were taking no chances. It seemed to work really well but who knows maybe it would have been mild without the medication.

The only side effect was the weird taste a couple ours after each dose.

sheshe2

(92,211 posts)
22. She didn't call her doctor.
Thu May 29, 2025, 07:39 PM
Thursday

She did however have her last Covid shot a few months ago.

Glad things worked out for you and your partner. Better to be safe than sorry.

WhiskeyGrinder

(24,957 posts)
5. There's a new variant starting to hit. Cases just doubled in Taiwan and it's highly contagious.
Thu May 29, 2025, 05:58 PM
Thursday

bsiebs

(837 posts)
33. The new variant is highly contagious however the symptoms are not as bad ...
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:24 PM
Thursday

Hope your sister recovers quickly and you test negative!

Cha

(311,400 posts)
12. Ohh, she... I hope your sister has a mild
Thu May 29, 2025, 06:34 PM
Thursday

case of it.. And you Don't get it At All!

💙🌈

ETA~ After reading Upthread.. it doesn't look so "mild"... I hope she heals well.

sheshe2

(92,211 posts)
26. Thank you, Cha🥰
Thu May 29, 2025, 07:58 PM
Thursday

She has been sleeping a lot and I bought her more juice and tea to keep hydrated.

Lol...I hope I don't get it either. As a kid I always got sicker for longer than my sibs did.

Cha

(311,400 posts)
36. Best of Good Luck on the
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:34 PM
Thursday

outcome of your test tomorrow!

Best of Healing to your sister, she.

BurnDoubt

(569 posts)
13. Wishing you and your Sister well. Lay low and
Thu May 29, 2025, 06:51 PM
Thursday

Try to bask in some positivity if you can find some. I'm sending you my good wishes. Take Care.

JMCKUSICK

(2,545 posts)
14. I'm sorry Sheshe2
Thu May 29, 2025, 06:55 PM
Thursday

I pray you stay well and please call your Dr for Paxlovid if you test positive for it and recommend to your sister as well.
God Speed

calimary

(86,507 posts)
15. Um... if I may...
Thu May 29, 2025, 06:56 PM
Thursday

Could I interest you in a well-deserved little change of mood, sheshe2? Sure seems like you need it! I just oozed though a read that made me wish I had a soup spoon and a vat of chocolate syrup!

On second thought, never mind the soup spoon. Make it a diving board!

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100220352734

sheshe2

(92,211 posts)
30. O.M.G.
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:19 PM
Thursday
In the beginning was the Word,
and the Word was with God,
and the Word was “accessorize.”



Thank you! That was delicious, with or without the chocolate!

slightlv

(5,633 posts)
23. Take care, sheshe2...
Thu May 29, 2025, 07:41 PM
Thursday

Hopefully you'll test negative. Been where you were at... took care of mom, first in her house and then moved her in with us before the dementia got bad enough we have to move her to a memory home. The stress of caregiving will leave you immune weakened. I'll be thinking of you... good luck!

sheshe2

(92,211 posts)
37. You had it a lot harder, slightly.
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:36 PM
Thursday

My mom didn't have dementia. She was pretty lucid until the end...and she hated trump! She passed a few months before her 96th birthday.

Thank you.

slightlv

(5,633 posts)
57. How'd your testing go, sheshe2?
Fri May 30, 2025, 04:34 PM
Friday

My mom died this past Jan 3. She detested trump with every fiber in her body. It was the ONE thing you could ask her about and she'd always have plenty to say about him - clear of all filters as only one with dementia can be! (LOL) There was all this talk on the TV about the coming Inauguration, etc., and I think she just decided she wasn't going to stick around for that all over again. I had her buried next to my dad at the National Cemetery. Sis and I are headed there on Sunday. They finally got the headstones engraved and put into place, and we're anxious to see them.

96 is a great age to have made it to. Mom was 88 when she passed. Dad was 77. Grandmother was the age I am now, 69. Kinda brings it all in close to home and makes you start thinking of the future in a whole different light.

Hubs and I are going to get caught up on our Covid vax on Saturday. We pick up my meds then, and I figure we'll just have them do it while we're there... before anything trump says or does affects us... especially money-wise on vaccines.

sheshe2

(92,211 posts)
59. I am so sorry for your loss, slightly.
Fri May 30, 2025, 06:32 PM
Friday

It is hard, I know. I am so glad you be able to view the engraved stone in their memory.💙 They will be together again.

I have not tested yet, some said it was to early and I felt fine today. I will see where I am at in the AM. I had 5 shots total, though I did not get the last one. I think I will do so now, as you say, that might be taken away from us because, per RFK Jr, vacines are bad!

Thank you.

Gore1FL

(22,474 posts)
24. Take care of yourself. Let's hope the vaccine protects you.
Thu May 29, 2025, 07:55 PM
Thursday

Best wishes for your sister.

Niagara

(10,699 posts)
25. Here's hoping that your sister recovers quickly
Thu May 29, 2025, 07:56 PM
Thursday

Please take care of yourself and keep us posted, sheshe.

highplainsdem

(56,326 posts)
27. Prayers and healing vibes, sheshe2, for your sister to recover quickly and for you not to catch it at
Thu May 29, 2025, 07:59 PM
Thursday

all. I'm so sorry she caught it somewhere and that you now have this stress.

sheshe2

(92,211 posts)
41. My sister and her daughter spent a few days in Boston.
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:54 PM
Thursday

Sunday-Monday, ballet and dinner in the North End. That could be where she got it, yet my niece is fine.


Thanks, highplanesdem.

IcyPeas

(23,628 posts)
28. I finally caught it last Fall after traveling... (had to go thru Heathrow)... 😷
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:10 PM
Thursday

I'm vaxxed so it was tolerable. I did call my doctor.... more just to inform him. He said paxlovid sometimes causes a rebound effect. He suggested just taking Dayquil and Nyquil for a few days which I did.

Hope she recovers quickly. Take care.

Rebound effect:

https://www.health.harvard.edu/digital_first_content/paxlovid-rebound-what-you-need-to-know

wendyb-NC

(4,284 posts)
31. That's too stressful
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:20 PM
Thursday

I send positive vibes, that you don't get covid, that your sister gets better quick. On top of the surreal, non stop, house of horrors happening minute by minute in our country, no you don't need covid.

Please, hang in there, hope your Covid test tomorrow is negative and you don't have any symptoms. Keep us posted on how you are doing.

homegirl

(1,740 posts)
32. If you have
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:21 PM
Thursday

been vaccinated and boosted it should be mild. I was vaccinated twice and boosted twice. When I did come down with COVID it was very mild, five days and I have had worse colds. And I am a senior with many of the ailments of old age!

BumRushDaShow

(153,628 posts)
34. Sending healing thoughts to your sis
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:28 PM
Thursday

and crossing fingers for you!

Both of my sisters have gotten it including one who had a 2nd time as "flurona". Their kids also got it and one's hubby did although the other hasn't so far (knock on wood since he had a kidney transplant and wouldn't want that).

I am still holding on with not having gotten it yet and am still masking in any public "indoor" space (stores, post office, pharmacy, doctor's office, etc), but have faded out of wearing one outdoors (but try to keep my distance).

blogslug

(38,878 posts)
35. I hope your sister gets better quickly. ❤️
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:28 PM
Thursday

I hope you avoid coming down with it. ❤️

Emile

(34,912 posts)
38. It's completely understandable why you're worried.
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:41 PM
Thursday

Remember the Majority Recover who do catch covid.

Check in with us and let us know how you're feeling.

Quiet Em

(1,989 posts)
40. Hopefully your sister's previous vax and boosters will keep it mild.
Thu May 29, 2025, 08:48 PM
Thursday

I'm just getting over a Covid infection. It's my second one. I finally caught Covid the first time on my birthday in 2023. My husband brought it back from a business trip. This time my son gave it to me.

My case has been mild even though I missed getting a booster last fall. My only symptoms were a little less energy and a raspy voice.

I hope if you do catch it your case will be mild as well.

B.See

(5,517 posts)
42. Just seeing this, Sheshe.
Thu May 29, 2025, 09:05 PM
Thursday

Here's hoping your sister gets well soon and best of health to you too. I know it's scary stuff, and hopefully it's the milder variant, and that shot will hopefully make it less severe.

Missus and I tried dodging the original starting back 2020. For almost four years, avoidin movies, malls, super markets, etc. Then a relative brought it home.

Was rough going for two weeks. Coriciden and Mucinex were close allies. Took a lot of C too.

Stay strong.

radical noodle

(10,217 posts)
44. Oh she! This on top of everything else
Thu May 29, 2025, 10:09 PM
Thursday

Healing vibes for your sister and lots of wishes that you don't get it too. Keep us updated on how you're both doing.

greatauntoftriplets

(177,709 posts)
45. My fingers are crossed for you.
Thu May 29, 2025, 10:57 PM
Thursday

Back in February, my sister tested positive for COVID. She made it through the pandemic without catching it, then boom.

I am immunocompromised and had been with her the day before she had the diagnosis. To my great surprise, I didn't catch it from her. Neither did her husband, who to this day has not had it.

Every day for a week, I'd take stock when I woke up in the morning to see how I felt. And everyday I felt fine.

So there's a chance that you may not get it. Testing tomorrow will be too soon. Wait a couple of days and then test. Best of luck to you.

greatauntoftriplets

(177,709 posts)
52. I hope that continues, she she.
Fri May 30, 2025, 11:18 AM
Friday

I had a mild case of COVID four years ago and it took too long to go away.

brer cat

(26,979 posts)
46. I hope your sister recovers quickly with no lasting
Fri May 30, 2025, 01:47 AM
Friday

problems, and I hope you don't have it.

sheshe2

(92,211 posts)
51. Thanks, brer.
Fri May 30, 2025, 10:58 AM
Friday

She feels like crap this morning but at least her temp is down to 99 degrees. Me, so far so good. Huge back at you.

You take care of you now...and sending healing vibes to your sister as well.

BComplex

(9,435 posts)
48. Paxlovid is a game changer, sheshe2!
Fri May 30, 2025, 10:23 AM
Friday

I caught COVID for the first time last September...the first time I had been on an airplane since before the pandemic started going across country, and, sure enough, came down with it. I was vaxxed, of course, but it hit hard.

I hope you dodge this bullet!

LittleGirl

(8,739 posts)
55. I force myself to step away
Fri May 30, 2025, 01:55 PM
Friday

To keep from getting overwhelmed.

I pick a day of the week and all day is either silence or music. No tv. No doom scrolling either.

I believe it helps to keep a perspective. I even watched about 30 minutes of Hannity last night just to see their slant b.s. I had to shut it off because I just can’t stand them.

pansypoo53219

(22,273 posts)
58. after dan quale + before w + dumber got elected i read a comforting book by a former SPY writer.
Fri May 30, 2025, 04:54 PM
Friday

"IMPERIAL CADDY'will make you relax. good book. also came up w/ short fingered vulgarian.

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