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Fetterman Says He's Being Shamed Into Showing Up
Under scrutiny, senator maintains his mental health issues have been weaponized against him
Sen. John Fetterman has been showing up for Senate duties more often lately, but not because he wants to. After suffering a stroke and being hospitalized for six weeks for treatment of depression, the Pennsylvania Democrat says he's being shamed into attending committee hearings, casting procedural floor votes, and performing the other day-to-day work of a senator. The reason for the change, Fetterman told the New York Times, is that "people in the media have weaponized" his absences to cast him as mentally unfit for the job.
He had just decided to spend more time at home instead of performing mundane tasks in the Capitol, Fetterman said. He calls being away from his family the worst part of the job. "I had to make a decision: getting here and sticking my thumb in the door for three seconds for a procedural vote or spend Monday night as a dad-daughter date," he said. And Fetterman said it bothers him that people have used his decision to seek treatment against him. "My doctor warned years ago: After it's public that you are getting help for depression, people will weaponize that," he said in the interview. "Simple things are turned. That's exactly what happened."
https://www.newser.com/story/369210/his-struggles-have-been-weaponized-fetterman-says.html

bucolic_frolic
(50,446 posts)If it's too much for you, resign.
Lonestarblue
(12,629 posts)Thats his job, to be physically present and working for the people.
SheltieLover
(68,330 posts)
RobinA
(10,351 posts)this guy turned out to be. Showing up for mundane tasks...it's called having a job.
Iggo
(48,850 posts)WhiskeyGrinder
(24,891 posts)Autumn
(47,891 posts)Last edited Sun May 25, 2025, 06:11 PM - Edit history (1)
You knew what the job entailed , if a three second procedural vote is too hard you need to quit. As a working Mother I missed a lot of events with my daughter. That's life. No one is forcing you to do that job. You chose it. You are well compensated. Man up or go home and stay there.
Ocelot II
(124,844 posts)peggysue2
(11,867 posts)I'm really disappointed in John Fetterman. I held my powder hoping he was just feeling his way around, new job, new responsibilities. The trip to Mar-a-Lago didn't sit well with me but again, I thought, the man has always gone his own way.
But this article (if accurate) smacks of entitlement. I'm guessing a number of US Senators have kids and kid-oriented functions (the daughter and Dad event) or have ailing parents, spouses, relatives with whom they'd like to spend time with. But if every Senator insisted on being absent for procedural votes, committee meetings or whatever, then the Senate's functions would be hampered, even grind to a halt. We're having a hard enough time holding the government together as it is.
Big John is a freshman Senator. He's been in the job for less than 4 months and yet has racked up 29 missed votes and holds the Senate's 3rd worst record for absenteeism (would love to know numbers 1 & 2).
So yes, disappointment for someone I supported and for whom I had great enthusiasm.
Damn!
Cha
(311,065 posts)I know you've held your powder dry.. Mahalo for your post.. one thing though..
John Fetterman became a Senator in 2021..
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Fetterman
No Kings Hands Off!
💙🌈
Oh God, I'm losing all track of time. Thanks for the pickup, girlfriend.
Cha
(311,065 posts)That 4 years went by awfully fast! A Blur! I had to make sure.. looked it up.
Always Glad to help.. Girlfriend!
RockRaven
(17,286 posts)So spare us the pity party, and the victim narrative. Nobody is forcing you to keep that highly-sought-after job.
Don't like the working conditions or expectations? Feel free to leave, expeditiously. Others are willing and ready to put up with the bad stuff, and thereby spare you from it.
buzzycrumbhunger
(1,142 posts)Gods, he really has turned into a Repuke, hasnt he? *eyeroll*
a kennedy
(33,582 posts)He needs to resign.
buzzycrumbhunger
(1,142 posts)and hes been absent from his job more than not. He *should* resign as much for his mental issues as for the fact hes not remotely the Democrat he ran as and was elected for.
The Wizard
(13,168 posts)Questionable mental acuity .
ecstatic
(34,782 posts)It sounds like he has a lot going on and doesn't really have time to be working on our behalf.
Arazi
(7,841 posts)will land you on some shit lists here
walkingman
(9,260 posts)if you are not capable, the honorable thing to do is to allow someone able and willing to do so.
We are in perilous times and need everyone fully engaged.
As my wife would say - put on your big boy pants and get busy.
Greg_In_SF
(218 posts)job. WTF?
msongs
(71,273 posts)Demovictory9
(35,841 posts)buzzycrumbhunger
(1,142 posts)So he has zero interest in the day-to-day aspects of the job, the performative votes, interactions with fellow Dems, and wont do town hall meetings with the constituents he supposedly represents because someone might challenge him on these issues
but he thinks hes still worth the salary *we* are paying him to have daddy-daughter time and resents any suggestion that refusing to be there to do his job are simply attacks on his mental health issues?
JFC. Get a fucking grip, Fetterman
Renew Deal
(83,933 posts)There is nothing wrong with preferring to be near his family.
Paladin
(30,464 posts)Happy Hoosier
(8,922 posts)There is no shame in not being up. To a job, especially if one is a stroke survivor and has depression issues. But it IS wrong to deny Pennsylvanians proper representation in the Senate. Resign.
Emile
(34,786 posts)until the next election.
pinkstarburst
(1,728 posts)and allow the governor to appoint a replacement who is willing to show up for all the procedural votes and everything else his job entails. He's being paid $200K per year for 100 days of showing up and gets an amazing health insurance plan. If the travel schedule is not something he wants to deal with, he should resign and allow Shapiro to appoint someone else until a special election can be held.
That isn't "weaponizing his diagnosis." That's him being unwilling to do his job.
Skipping votes because you'd rather be at "daddy and daughter date night" when you're being paid $200K per year to be there for those votes is not okay.
leftstreet
(36,756 posts)maybe he should apply for disability benefits
Jilly_in_VA
(11,964 posts)that you cannot show up to do your job, then you should RESIGN and stop whining, Jawn! I was for you until you turned all tRumpy and whiny.
mountain grammy
(27,831 posts)I trust him far more than I trust you.. Retire and enjoy your life, please!
johnp3907
(3,984 posts)Wow.
HappyH
(40 posts)At least you dont have to dress nice for your job.
JoseBalow
(7,535 posts)
WhiteTara
(30,761 posts)with your family and leave the work to someone willing to do it.