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RJ-MacReady

(587 posts)
Thu May 15, 2025, 01:30 PM May 15

I got into it with someone on FB

I have a few remaining MAGAt's in my friend list, mainly people from high-school (a lot of which used to bully me until I grew bigger than them). I mostly kept quiet for years until 2020 and especially after the insurrection. Fast forward to today I am super outspoken and unapologetic about it. I no longer care about having "civil discussions" with these people. To be quite honest it was very cathartic treating them like dirt and being as nasty and disrespectful as I could be. Several have unfriended me or blocked me over the past couple years and I am fine with that. There is no rational conversation with them no getting through. Why should I maintain respect and civility? All of these people deserve nothing but scorn and disdain.

/rant

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I got into it with someone on FB (Original Post) RJ-MacReady May 15 OP
They need to justify KT2000 May 15 #1
Yeah I'm sick of it RJ-MacReady May 15 #2
Interesting. Roughly when did you decide you could speak your mind? erronis May 15 #3
2020 RJ-MacReady May 15 #5
I've unfriended several people. Not over politics, but for honesty, ethics & integrity. LeftinOH May 15 #4
I have a couple of FB friends who are hardcore maga, and I want to keep them so Fil1957 May 15 #6
I once thought as you do RJ-MacReady May 15 #7
Because some day this will happen to you, too" Warpy May 15 #8
My favorite way to shut them up is louis-t May 15 #9
I have tried that RJ-MacReady May 15 #10
I have been watching Noem double-talk through her hearings. louis-t May 16 #13
They never answer RJ-MacReady May 16 #15
Social media will be the downfall of humanity Gimpyknee May 15 #11
I don't put up with their shit anymore. I wear my veterans Emile May 15 #12
Early 2017, I was waiting for a client at a property when an older veteran approached me. louis-t May 16 #14
down goes another RJ-MacReady May 21 #16
Everything is fair game BeerBarrelPolka May 21 #17
Agreed RJ-MacReady May 21 #18
Yes BeerBarrelPolka May 21 #19
These, , , people have worked very hard for our Prairie_Seagull May 21 #20
agreed RJ-MacReady May 21 #21

KT2000

(21,454 posts)
1. They need to justify
Thu May 15, 2025, 02:31 PM
May 15

their cruelty. It is so obvious now, they cannot pretend it is not happening.

RJ-MacReady

(587 posts)
2. Yeah I'm sick of it
Thu May 15, 2025, 02:56 PM
May 15

I so wish I took a screenshot of one conversation. This idiot tried to tell me you can "catch autism" a few days after being vaccinated. I called him a stupid fuck and to please hand your children into CPS. He wasn't amused.

erronis

(19,880 posts)
3. Interesting. Roughly when did you decide you could speak your mind?
Thu May 15, 2025, 03:01 PM
May 15

I know I have been too deferential most of my life and around perhaps 60 found my voice. I'm trying not to be too loud in my new vociferousness, tho.

RJ-MacReady

(587 posts)
5. 2020
Thu May 15, 2025, 03:09 PM
May 15

Is when it really started. I no longer care about making people uncomfortable. I want those people to remember be as an asshole.

LeftinOH

(5,528 posts)
4. I've unfriended several people. Not over politics, but for honesty, ethics & integrity.
Thu May 15, 2025, 03:07 PM
May 15

...And also stupidity; right after T's was first elected, the ones who posted memes about "Now it's safe to say 'Merry Christmas' again!" with Trump's grinning mug.. I unfriended those morons immediately.

Fil1957

(81 posts)
6. I have a couple of FB friends who are hardcore maga, and I want to keep them so
Thu May 15, 2025, 03:25 PM
May 15

I can feel the pulse of the movement. On rare occasions, they may be unhappy about some things maga. On other even rarer occasions they may approve of a democratic policy. As hard as it is sometimes, I keep my mouth shut just to see what's going on in their heads.

Warpy

(113,451 posts)
8. Because some day this will happen to you, too"
Thu May 15, 2025, 04:04 PM
May 15

Well, unless the moron is question is a billionaire, and billionaires generally don't do Farcebook, they have staff for that.

louis-t

(24,342 posts)
9. My favorite way to shut them up is
Thu May 15, 2025, 04:17 PM
May 15

"You seem to be ok with him putting anyone he doesn't like in prison. Let me ask you something, what if he decides he doesn't like you?" I have yet to get a response to that. If you get tired of arguing with them and quit, they think they've won.

RJ-MacReady

(587 posts)
10. I have tried that
Thu May 15, 2025, 04:28 PM
May 15

It's either ignored outright or what abouted. I won't quit until they block me. I never unfriend.

louis-t

(24,342 posts)
13. I have been watching Noem double-talk through her hearings.
Fri May 16, 2025, 12:46 PM
May 16

Dems are hammering her and she just keeps yapping rhetoric and talking points. She won't answer yes or no to any question. What did that woman do to her face?

Emile

(34,857 posts)
12. I don't put up with their shit anymore. I wear my veterans
Thu May 15, 2025, 04:39 PM
May 15

cap almost every time I'm out in public. You would be surprised at how many of these magats think since I'm a veteran, that I must be a fascist magat too.

louis-t

(24,342 posts)
14. Early 2017, I was waiting for a client at a property when an older veteran approached me.
Fri May 16, 2025, 12:51 PM
May 16

He was wearing a black American Legion hat. He decided I needed to know his opinion about the recent election. "It's the best thing that ever happened to us" he said in his old man voice. I usually recount the story using Homer Simpson's dad's voice. "Now everyone will be afraid of him." Seems to me, the only people in the world that are afraid of him are repub politicians and a lot of Americans. The rest of the world simply hates him or takes advantage of him because they know he can be bought.

RJ-MacReady

(587 posts)
16. down goes another
Wed May 21, 2025, 09:11 AM
May 21

This one posted some video of a woman in a cat costume identifying ad a cat. It was obviously a dig at trans people or really any LGBT person. So I attacked his alcohol recovery, a low blow absolutely but it's needed against these people. I attacked his constant posts about his recovery and all the cliched sayings he would post. Needless to say he was angry and blocked me lol.

Prairie_Seagull

(4,212 posts)
20. These, , , people have worked very hard for our
Wed May 21, 2025, 09:25 AM
May 21

scorn and disdain. They have earned it.

Now and in the future, they reap the outcomes.

RJ-MacReady

(587 posts)
21. agreed
Wed May 21, 2025, 09:36 AM
May 21

Even 4 years ago that would be off limits. Not now their weakness or shortcomings are ripe for attack.

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